President Paul Kagame has urged young people to take charge of their choices and behaviour, saying that lasting personal change begins with an individual’s willingness to distinguish right from wrong and act accordingly.
He made the remarks on October 21, 2026, during the “Meet the President” dialogue, where he discussed issues affecting young people and their role in the country’s development.
Kagame encouraged the youth to make productive use of their time by studying, working and focusing on activities that contribute to their future, rather than getting caught up in habits that hold them back.
“Wherever you are, do not waste time. Study, work and learn to distinguish what is right from what is wrong. Choose what is right, avoid what is wrong and keep working to improve yourself as you grow,” he said.
He stressed that discipline and good habits must be practised consistently to shape a person’s character and future.
The President said the choices young people make at this stage of their lives can have lasting consequences. However, he urged those who have made mistakes or developed harmful habits not to give up, noting that it is possible to change course.
“Some people get carried away by emotions and the easy temptations of life and end up losing their way. But once you realise what is happening, remember that you still have time to change and build a better life. Do not give up or assume that everything is lost. Even when things have gone wrong, they can still be put right,” he said.
Kagame added that personal growth should go hand in hand with responsibility towards others, saying that people cannot live solely for themselves.
“How you conduct yourself should reflect concern not only for your own well-being but also for others. No one lives alone, whether in a family, a community or a country. Building yourself requires sound thinking and responsible action,” he said.
He also cautioned young people against blindly following other people’s choices, urging them to think for themselves and make decisions that are right for them. While learning from others is valuable, he said, individuals must take responsibility for their own conduct.
Kagame said advice and education can help people understand the consequences of harmful behaviour, but no one can force another person to adopt good habits.
“You cannot be forced to develop good behaviour, although you can learn from others how to conduct yourself well,” he said.
Citing alcohol and drug use, including cannabis, he said young people could be educated about the dangers of substance abuse, but the information would only make a difference if they reflected on it and chose to change.
“We can explain the dangers of alcohol, drugs and cannabis, and show you the harm they have caused others. But when that information makes sense to you and changes how you think, it can help you make better choices and live a healthier life,” he said.
