Mu miryango myinshi haracyari imyumvire ivuga ko kwita ku mwana ari inshingano ya mama gusa, papa agafatwa nk’umutware. Nyamara ibikorwa bito papa akorera umwana buri munsi, nko kumuterure, kumugaburira cyangwa kumukinisha bigira uruhare rukomeye mu mikurire n’imibereho myiza y’umwana.